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Intentional Dating Deck

Intentional Dating Deck

 (4.6 / 876 Reviews)
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What You Get

100 question cards to help you find out if you and your potential partner are aligned and compatible

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Details & Specs

  • 100 questions
  • 5Topic categories
  • Premium 350gsm matte cards
  • Portable size ‎3.9" x 2.95" x 2.87"
  • Designed in Charlotte, NC /
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Why It Works

The "Intentional Dating" deck works by offering insights into finding alignment with a partner through its thoughtful design. Here's why it’s effective:: Encourages open, vulnerable conversations about core values, beliefs, and aspirations.
: Helps both partners evaluate personal goals and interpersonal compatibility.
: Promotes healthy communication by guiding tough yet necessary conversations.
: Fosters mutual understanding on important topics like values and long-term goals.



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How To Use

Take turns pulling a card from any deck, read the question then the other player answers the question. Ask questions for as long or as little as you like.

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    "I wasn’t sure what questions to ask beyond the usual “What do you do?” on a first or second date. The Intentional Dating deck guided us straight into conversations about our long-term goals, values around family, and even deal-breakers like finances. By the time we finished the deck, I knew we were aligned on the things that truly matter—and it made me feel confident moving forward."

    Shai
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    “As someone who tends to keep things light early on, I was surprised at how easily the deck prompted me to open up about tough topics—like how I view commitment and what I need from a partner. My date and I both appreciated how the questions built on each other, letting us reveal our priorities without awkwardness. We walked away feeling like we’d skipped months of small talk and gotten right to the heart of compatibility.”



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    “I’ve used other conversation cards before, but this Intentional Dating expansion finally gave us clarity. It wasn’t just fun—it actually led to a deeper understanding of where we see ourselves in five years and how we handle conflict. After playing, I felt more confident that we shared the same values and life vision, rather than guessing if we were on the same page.”



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    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Hear How Unpack That Is Changing Relationships

      • Guided, Progressive Conversations


        Move beyond small talk with a carefully structured sequence of questions that gradually deepen the dialogue—from light “get-to-know-you” prompts to meaningful, values-driven topics.

      • Early Alignment & Deal-Breaker Detection


        Identify core priorities (family, finances, future plans) before investing more time. Pinpoint deal-breakers early so you both know you’re headed in the same direction.

      • Authentic Vulnerability & Trust


        Create a safe, low-pressure space for honesty. Each card invites open sharing and active listening, helping you build trust and understand each other’s true selves.

      • Fun, Shareable Date Experience


        Turn a conversation into a playful activity. The deck’s format makes it easy to laugh, learn, and connect—transforming any date into a memorable, engaging experience.

        • These cards saved me months of guesswork


          “I brought the Intentional Dating deck to our third date, thinking it would be a fun icebreaker. By the end of the night, my partner and I had shared our dreams for the future, discussed how we handle conflict, and even discovered we both want kids in the next few years. It felt like skipping ahead in the relationship conversation—no awkward small talk, just genuine connection. Highly recommend for anyone who’s serious about finding someone who truly aligns with their values.”



          Jessica L.

        • A must-have for honest dating


          “I’ve always found it hard to know if someone is on the same page until months into dating. With these cards, I was able to ask deeper questions about finances, family expectations, and personal goals—all in one sitting. My girlfriend and I realized early on that our life visions matched, and it made us feel incredibly confident moving forward. We’re now planning our first vacation together, and I know it wouldn’t have happened so smoothly without this deck.”



          Daniel R.

        • Perfect gift for single friends

          “I bought the Intentional Dating cards as a birthday gift for my friend who was tired of surface-level conversations on apps. He tried them with a few dates and came back raving—said it helped him filter out mismatches and focus on truly compatible partners. He even gave me a shout-out for helping him find someone who shares his core values. Whether you’re single or giving them to a friend, these cards are a game-changer for intentional dating.”

          Priya S.

          FAQ

          How does Unpack That help improve communication in relationships?

          Unpack That encourages open dialogue by prompting meaningful conversations through thoughtful questions, helping couples or friends to discuss important topics they might not typically address in everyday conversations.

          Can Unpack That be played with friends, or is it only for couples?

          Unpack That is designed for everyone that wants to strengthen their bond by exploring topics of communication, values, and emotions. It's great for friends and family as well.

          How long does a typical game of Unpack That take to play?

          A game of Unpack That can be as long or short as you'd like. Since the game is conversation-driven, it depends on how in-depth your discussions are. You can spend anywhere from 30 minutes to over an hour playing, depending on the pace and depth of your conversations.

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          Sully Najera
          Best conversation starters and connections

          I'm enjoying every question with a lot of wonderful insights from myself and others

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          Anna Eleazer
          Communication Assist!

          This is a great exercise for those who need a little help in communication. If you aren't the best at opening up, these cards will help to get the communication, emotions, and vulnerability flowing!

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          Roy Rex
          Great start!!!

          It definitely allows the couple to open up.

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          Estoria Lovett
          Thought-provoking worthy

          Worth getting and using in a group. Questions to answer are very thought provoking and open up for great debates. Looking forward to presenting deck of questions in a group. This deck is a good ice-breaker amongst friends and family.

          We unpacked things

          Played through the deck and broke up two days later, works as intended.

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          Maria Whalen
          even better than i anticipated

          its like sitting w some of my friends who know how to ask thoughtful and thought provoking questions that i struggle to come up with on my own. i can play it with anyone and it applies and is fun

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          Derek Ryan

          It's great for building a connection with someone, not for fixing a break up unfortunately

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          William Iglesias
          Extremely fun.

          We broke out the cards during dinner and it was just a fantastic way to have a good healthy conversation and learn a bit more about each other bellow surface level topics. Thanks yall are awesome for making these.

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          DeJanee Moore
          Love it

          Thank you for great conversation

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          Masoud siddiqi

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          Jacelyn Bryan
          Sooo glad I bought this game!

          I decided to buy these game cards for me and my boyfriend. I felt like we had a bit of a hard time connecting on a deeper level because of what he’s been through in his past. So when we played these cards, it definitely gave us both an understanding of who we are and what we had to work on as a couple. These cards are amazing and worth every penny! GET THEM NOW :)

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          Jordann Myers
          Surprised by How Much I loved this

          The first night, my boyfriend and I only intended to do one card and we ended up doing 1 card from each category. It was equally fun as it was insightful, and is part of how my partner can ensure I get my dose of high quality time — thank you!

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          Brandy M Perez
          Awesome Game

          We loved the game

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          Tameka Ross
          Great Game!

          This game is amazing. It allows for you to have open conversations!

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          Shanice Webb
          Great Conversation Starter

          I appreciate the creation of this game. It helped my conversation get deeper and we kept respect for each other throughout the game.

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          Love Deck
          Joanna Joy Seetoo
          Customer Service is great

          I haven’t had the opportunity to use the cards but want to give a shout out to Ewing in customer service who made sure all of the decks got delivered to me. Thank you Ewing!

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          Kelly McDonald
          Wonderful Family Time Created

          It is an understatement to say this game is a huge blessing! What a wonderful tool for family healing, connecting & growing. Thank you!

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          Jessie Vea-Kaufusi
          Wrong Deck

          There was a mistake with my order. I ordered a Love deck and instead received a Spirituality Deck. I emailed and contacted the info team but I am still waiting on it to be fixed.

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          Jessie Vea-Kaufusi
          Wrong Deck

          I love the main deck of cards it really helps us to get closer but there was a mistake with the Love deck that I ordered. There were spirituality cards in the deck. I’m still waiting on receiving the right deck. It’s been 2 weeks.

          Reconnecting

          First, I would like to say the customer service was A-1!! When placing my order, I shipped it to the wrong address. They were able to correct my mistake to get my order to me! Now for the cards, I purchased the game for my husband and I to reconnect. We were able to have those tough conversations with being in a safe place. It took the pressure off of us and was able to feel closer to one another! I highly recommend this game!

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          Jaedyn Hodges
          Perfect Conversation Starters

          The questions are wonderful! They have started tough conversations bringing us closer in an easy relaxing way that doesn’t feel contrived! Thank you!

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          Jaquana Alston
          Wonderful!

          My husband and I really enjoyed the questions!!! This is a great relationship builder. It’s a great way to start conversation

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          Isaiah Davis
          Great Deck!

          Some pretty hard questions to answer! but be honest and vulnerable and you learn a lot about yourself and the other participant.

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          Patricia J.
          Best Conversation Starter game yet

          I’ve purchased a number of similar ‘game’ decks over the last few years, and both my partner and I agree that this is the best yet! Great questions that are new and different from other decks, and help promote thoughtful conversations. Very happy

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          Ali Farrell
          Great company and game.

          The questions were just the type of thing I was looking for, and when I ran into a shipping situation, the company responded immediately and took care of it for me. Very happy!