• Box of Unpack That Intentional Dating Deck
  • Cards discussing values related to relationships and financial planning
  • Cards with prompts related to relationships for discussion.
  • Set of conversation prompts with the word 'CONNECT' at the top and questions about personal interests and experiences.
  • Lifestyle discussion prompts on cards about city vs. countryside preferences, socializing, health, and travel.
  • Cards with prompts for discussing future goals and aspirations.
  • A set of conversation prompt cards titled 'Lighthearted' with questions about adventures, talents, quirky habits, and embarrassing moments.

Intentional Dating Deck

Intentional Dating Deck

 (4.6 / 876 Reviews)
$25.00
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What You Get

100 question cards to help you find out if you and your potential partner are aligned and compatible

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Details & Specs

  • 100 questions
  • 5Topic categories
  • Premium 350gsm matte cards
  • Portable size ‎3.9" x 2.95" x 2.87"
  • Designed in Charlotte, NC
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Why It Works

The Intentional Dating deck works by offering insights into finding alignment with a partner through its thoughtful design. Here's why it’s effective:: Encourages open, vulnerable conversations about core values, beliefs, and aspirations.
: Helps both partners evaluate personal goals and interpersonal compatibility.
: Promotes healthy communication by guiding tough yet necessary conversations.
: Fosters mutual understanding on important topics like values and long-term goals.



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How To Use

Take turns pulling a card from any deck, read the question then the other player answers the question. Ask questions for as long or as little as you like.
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    "I wasn’t sure what questions to ask beyond the usual “What do you do?” on a first or second date. The Intentional Dating deck guided us straight into conversations about our long-term goals, values around family, and even deal-breakers like finances. By the time we finished the deck, I knew we were aligned on the things that truly matter—and it made me feel confident moving forward."

    Shai
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    “As someone who tends to keep things light early on, I was surprised at how easily the deck prompted me to open up about tough topics—like how I view commitment and what I need from a partner. My date and I both appreciated how the questions built on each other, letting us reveal our priorities without awkwardness. We walked away feeling like we’d skipped months of small talk and gotten right to the heart of compatibility.”



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    “I’ve used other conversation cards before, but this Intentional Dating expansion finally gave us clarity. It wasn’t just fun—it actually led to a deeper understanding of where we see ourselves in five years and how we handle conflict. After playing, I felt more confident that we shared the same values and life vision, rather than guessing if we were on the same page.”



    Danielle Wallman
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    Spark authentic conversations

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    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Discover alignment

    Spark authentic conversations

    Build deeper connections

    Hear How Unpack That Is Changing Relationships

      Why Choose Intentional Dating Cards?

      • Guided, Progressive Conversations


        Move beyond small talk with a carefully structured sequence of questions that gradually deepen the dialogue—from light “get-to-know-you” prompts to meaningful, values-driven topics.

      • Early Alignment & Deal-Breaker Detection


        Identify core priorities (family, finances, future plans) before investing more time. Pinpoint deal-breakers early so you both know you’re headed in the same direction.

      • Authentic Vulnerability & Trust


        Create a safe, low-pressure space for honesty. Each card invites open sharing and active listening, helping you build trust and understand each other’s true selves.

      • Fun, Shareable Date Experience


        Turn a conversation into a playful activity. The deck’s format makes it easy to laugh, learn, and connect—transforming any date into a memorable, engaging experience.

        Testimonials

        • These cards saved me months of guesswork


          “I brought the Intentional Dating deck to our third date, thinking it would be a fun icebreaker. By the end of the night, my partner and I had shared our dreams for the future, discussed how we handle conflict, and even discovered we both want kids in the next few years. It felt like skipping ahead in the relationship conversation—no awkward small talk, just genuine connection. Highly recommend for anyone who’s serious about finding someone who truly aligns with their values.”



          Jessica L.

        • A must-have for honest dating


          “I’ve always found it hard to know if someone is on the same page until months into dating. With these cards, I was able to ask deeper questions about finances, family expectations, and personal goals—all in one sitting. My girlfriend and I realized early on that our life visions matched, and it made us feel incredibly confident moving forward. We’re now planning our first vacation together, and I know it wouldn’t have happened so smoothly without this deck.”



          Daniel R.

        • Perfect gift for single friends

          “I bought the Intentional Dating cards as a birthday gift for my friend who was tired of surface-level conversations on apps. He tried them with a few dates and came back raving—said it helped him filter out mismatches and focus on truly compatible partners. He even gave me a shout-out for helping him find someone who shares his core values. Whether you’re single or giving them to a friend, these cards are a game-changer for intentional dating.”

          Priya S.

          FAQ

          How does Unpack That help improve communication in relationships?

          Unpack That encourages open dialogue by prompting meaningful conversations through thoughtful questions, helping couples or friends to discuss important topics they might not typically address in everyday conversations.

          Can Unpack That be played with friends, or is it only for couples?

          Unpack That is designed for everyone that wants to strengthen their bond by exploring topics of communication, values, and emotions. It's great for friends and family as well.

          How long does a typical game of Unpack That take to play?

          A game of Unpack That can be as long or short as you'd like. Since the game is conversation-driven, it depends on how in-depth your discussions are. You can spend anywhere from 30 minutes to over an hour playing, depending on the pace and depth of your conversations.