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Unpack That

Unpack That

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Life gets busy. Between careers, kids and endless to‑dos, genuine conversation with your partner often takes a back seat. Unpack That is a beautifully designed deck of 125 questions and prompts that helps you rediscover one another, one card at a time. Think of it as therapy‑in‑a‑box — without the appointments.

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Why it’s made for you

  • Break the cycle of “How was your day?” – Inside you’ll find 100 thoughtful questions across four curated topics and 25 playful Wildcards. They're organised from light and fun to deep and meaningful so you can ease into vulnerability at your own pace
  • Create a safe space for honest sharing – The prompts are designed with therapeutic insight to foster empathy and trust, allowing both partners to speak openly without judgement
  • Perfect for busy schedules – Each card can spark a five‑minute check‑in or an evening‑long heart‑to‑heart. There’s no board, timer or rules — just pick a card whenever you need connection
  • Quality you’ll enjoy holding – Premium 350 gsm matte cards in a portable box (3.9 × 2.95 × 2.87 inches) look beautiful on your coffee table and slip easily into your bag for getaways




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How to use

  • Draw a card from any of the five decks (memories, values, growth, etc.).
  • Read the question aloud and allow your partner to answer without interruption.
  • Take turns listening and responding — the goal is understanding, not “winning.”
  • Play for as long or short as you like. There’s no right or wrong way to use the cards; some couples enjoy a card with morning coffee, others use the deck for date night
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What you’ll experience

  • Foster deeper connections by exploring topics that matter to you both
  • Build trust and confidence as you learn to share true feelings without judgement
  • Encourage meaningful conversation that leads to hours of dialogue and unforgettable memories
  • Create lasting memories as you laugh, reminisce and dream together
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    My husband and I are using this during our weekly sit downs. These cards help us to have direction in our conversation and hit those vulnerable topics to deepen our conversation as well. I love that they also include wild cards to loosen the mood a little and add some fun to it.

    Teesh
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    “We’ve been married 15 years and thought we knew everything about each other. These questions helped us uncover stories, dreams and fears we’d never shared before. It’s become our favourite way to connect after the kids are in bed.”


    Charlotte G
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    My husband & I love spending quality time playing unpack that! So worth it.

    Danielle Wallman
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    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Great For Couples

    Give Your Kids An Open Way To Express Themselves

    A Meaningful Bonding Experience

    Hear How Unpack That Is Changing Relationships

      •  Perfect date night❤️

        played this with my boyfriend and it deff helped us break some barriers. Sometimes we don’t know the right questions to ask and this game deff helped us navigate that level of deepness we were trying to reach.

        Lindsay Fitzgerald

      • Timeless game to keep!

        You can stop any time so there is no time limit to the "game", a great conversation starter/carrier.

      •  As a therapist...got so many breakthroughs with this tool!

        I love this deck. It prompted so many aha/breakthrough moments for my clients. Definitely recommend.

        Jennifer Gregg

        FAQ

        How does Unpack That help improve communication in relationships?

        Unpack That encourages open dialogue by prompting meaningful conversations through thoughtful questions, helping couples or friends to discuss important topics they might not typically address in everyday conversations.

        Can Unpack That be played with friends, or is it only for couples?

        Unpack That is designed for everyone that wants to strengthen their bond by exploring topics of communication, values, and emotions. It's great for friends and family as well.

        How long does a typical game of Unpack That take to play?

        A game of Unpack That can be as long or short as you'd like. Since the game is conversation-driven, it depends on how in-depth your discussions are. You can spend anywhere from 30 minutes to over an hour playing, depending on the pace and depth of your conversations.

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        Sully Najera
        Best conversation starters and connections

        I'm enjoying every question with a lot of wonderful insights from myself and others

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        Anna Eleazer
        Communication Assist!

        This is a great exercise for those who need a little help in communication. If you aren't the best at opening up, these cards will help to get the communication, emotions, and vulnerability flowing!

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        Roy Rex
        Great start!!!

        It definitely allows the couple to open up.

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        Estoria Lovett
        Thought-provoking worthy

        Worth getting and using in a group. Questions to answer are very thought provoking and open up for great debates. Looking forward to presenting deck of questions in a group. This deck is a good ice-breaker amongst friends and family.

        We unpacked things

        Played through the deck and broke up two days later, works as intended.

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        Maria Whalen
        even better than i anticipated

        its like sitting w some of my friends who know how to ask thoughtful and thought provoking questions that i struggle to come up with on my own. i can play it with anyone and it applies and is fun

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        Derek Ryan

        It's great for building a connection with someone, not for fixing a break up unfortunately

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        William Iglesias
        Extremely fun.

        We broke out the cards during dinner and it was just a fantastic way to have a good healthy conversation and learn a bit more about each other bellow surface level topics. Thanks yall are awesome for making these.

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        DeJanee Moore
        Love it

        Thank you for great conversation

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        Jacelyn Bryan
        Sooo glad I bought this game!

        I decided to buy these game cards for me and my boyfriend. I felt like we had a bit of a hard time connecting on a deeper level because of what he’s been through in his past. So when we played these cards, it definitely gave us both an understanding of who we are and what we had to work on as a couple. These cards are amazing and worth every penny! GET THEM NOW :)

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        Jordann Myers
        Surprised by How Much I loved this

        The first night, my boyfriend and I only intended to do one card and we ended up doing 1 card from each category. It was equally fun as it was insightful, and is part of how my partner can ensure I get my dose of high quality time — thank you!

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        Brandy M Perez
        Awesome Game

        We loved the game

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        Tameka Ross
        Great Game!

        This game is amazing. It allows for you to have open conversations!

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        Shanice Webb
        Great Conversation Starter

        I appreciate the creation of this game. It helped my conversation get deeper and we kept respect for each other throughout the game.

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        Love Deck
        Joanna Joy Seetoo
        Customer Service is great

        I haven’t had the opportunity to use the cards but want to give a shout out to Ewing in customer service who made sure all of the decks got delivered to me. Thank you Ewing!

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        Kelly McDonald
        Wonderful Family Time Created

        It is an understatement to say this game is a huge blessing! What a wonderful tool for family healing, connecting & growing. Thank you!

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        Jessie Vea-Kaufusi
        Wrong Deck

        There was a mistake with my order. I ordered a Love deck and instead received a Spirituality Deck. I emailed and contacted the info team but I am still waiting on it to be fixed.

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        Jessie Vea-Kaufusi
        Wrong Deck

        I love the main deck of cards it really helps us to get closer but there was a mistake with the Love deck that I ordered. There were spirituality cards in the deck. I’m still waiting on receiving the right deck. It’s been 2 weeks.

        Reconnecting

        First, I would like to say the customer service was A-1!! When placing my order, I shipped it to the wrong address. They were able to correct my mistake to get my order to me! Now for the cards, I purchased the game for my husband and I to reconnect. We were able to have those tough conversations with being in a safe place. It took the pressure off of us and was able to feel closer to one another! I highly recommend this game!

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        Jaedyn Hodges
        Perfect Conversation Starters

        The questions are wonderful! They have started tough conversations bringing us closer in an easy relaxing way that doesn’t feel contrived! Thank you!

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        Jaquana Alston
        Wonderful!

        My husband and I really enjoyed the questions!!! This is a great relationship builder. It’s a great way to start conversation

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        Isaiah Davis
        Great Deck!

        Some pretty hard questions to answer! but be honest and vulnerable and you learn a lot about yourself and the other participant.

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        Patricia J.
        Best Conversation Starter game yet

        I’ve purchased a number of similar ‘game’ decks over the last few years, and both my partner and I agree that this is the best yet! Great questions that are new and different from other decks, and help promote thoughtful conversations. Very happy

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        Ali Farrell
        Great company and game.

        The questions were just the type of thing I was looking for, and when I ran into a shipping situation, the company responded immediately and took care of it for me. Very happy!